4 Months

I guess after 4 months it is time for me to FINALLY let everyone in blogland know what I have been up to. Life for me is good…actually the best it has been for many years. socially, emotionally, spiritually, physically and intellectually…all is good. I am loving my friends, my family, my work and school. I will try and fill you in on all the details as soon as I can. Life is busy now, but I will try and post more than once in four months. SHAME ON ME!!! For now, I want everyone to know that I am alive and well and enjoying my life. There has been many changes in my life this past year and I am finally getting all I ever wanted (and I am not talking materialistically…even though my plasma tv and my Wii are nice lol)

I have been spending a large amount of my spare time taking pictures. I am finding that I am really enjoying photography and hunting for a good picture. It is true that you have to take 100 to just get one good one. School is over till the fall and all I have to finish my degree is 2 courses. I plan on finishing by christmas. My contract at work got extended another year so that worry is gone for awhile. Finally my sex life is good. I am getting quite a bit of sex (which is good) but still have not found Mr. Right just Mr. Right Now! More on that later…

For now here is one of my latest photos…

Wow…it has been so long since I posted that it took me forever to figure out how to add a photo!!! click on the pic to see the bee better

Snow Day!!!

When I was woken up this morning at 630 by a co-worker saying that we were off today because of the storm I looked out the window and this is what I saw. BTW My car had 2 foot of snow on it….

I have not done a thing to these photos except upload them…it really was that blue!!!

WOW!!

I can not believe that it has been a month since I posted! Life is still good for me and I am working to keep it that way. Seeing I have not posted for quite awhile I will update everyone on what I have been up to and any news that has happened recently.

1)  I have been having sex on a somewhat regular basis now. No, not with the same person!

2) I got a recumbent bike and am still getting use to it.

3) My job has been extended for another year!! YAY me

4) I purchased a 42″ plasma tv

5)  I am going to visit Cleveland and my BB Friend in Pittsburg in March. (so if you are going to be around that area let me know.

6) School is going great…my mid term marks were 90’s

7) It has been a cold winter so far.

I went curling for the first time. (I was sore for days)

9) I actually went to a psychic and she scared me because she knew stuff that no one could ever know without me saying. It was specific!

10) My mother came for a visit

11) I am feeling great lately as everything is going well…some bumps, but generally good!

I will try and finish my bathhouse story soon before I get back there again! lol

Happy New Year!!!

Happy New Year to all my blogger friends! Hopefully you will see more of me in the New Year! I wish everyone the very best for 2008 and way beyond…much love!

Merry Christmas!!

I decided to take a few days holidays and head off early to visit my mother for Christmas. I wanted to wish everyone out there in Blogland a Very Merry Christmas.

Cleveland Part 1

It was my last day on my visit with my BB Friend and Jimmy. We decided to spend it in a Bathhouse in Cleveland, because when I visited them last year in December, we had a great time there. Scott took the day off and while it was still daylight we hopped into our cars and headed for the three hour drive from Greensburg to Cleveland. Our three hours turned into four because we kinda got lost. We got to the bathhouse and checked in. Scott and Jim got a room in the hotel (yes, they have suites in the bathhouse!!) and I got a room with a double bed and a TV. We decided to do this because I was going to head off to Toronto the next morning after our fun in the bathhouse and we needed some sleep as well.

I got to my room and I knew in my bones that this was not going to be the same as the night in Washington (plus, I was determined to have sex!!) I stripped off and wrapped my towel around me and off I headed. When I was there last December, I had a great time in the wet room, so that was my first stop. There was a very cute guy there with a great bod playing with his cock. He gave me that bathhouse cruise so I slid over and started to play with this long cock. After a few strokes with my hand, I bent over and put his cock in my mouth. I went all the way down his cock and as soon as I had done that two times, he reached down and took his cock out of my mouth and whispered to me, “I do not do that, I am straight.” At first I was in disbelief that a straight guy would ever be in a gay Bathhouse then it was kinda exciting and I went with it and just jerked this guys cock for awhile. I told Scott and Jim about this and it intrigued Jim so he went after this guy and before long Jimmy was playing with him and a few others in the Steamroom. I never stuck around for the play and continued walking around.

I met up with this other guy that wanted to do the three of us and had been cruising us for a long time. Scott and Jim were not interested so the idea was dropped. They continued to play together in the pool. We went our separate ways and a short time later met again and he said that I had to see something. He led me to the movie theatre and there was this skinny guy that was playing with himself. He had one of the biggest cocks I had ever seen. It was more than a two fister and was as big around as a pop can. We all played there for a few minutes and then went back to a room. We played for a few and the big dicked guy said he wanted to feel my ass with his cock. I took a deep breath, looked at his massive cock and I said I would try. It has been a long time since I had had a big cock like that. He layed down on the bed and I straddled him as he put on the condom. I slowly put the head of his cock in my ass. I knew it would take some time to get it in so I started to go up and down on his cock, slowing getting deeper and deeper. Before long, it was all the way in and we were both groaning with pleasure. The third guy by this time had put his cock in my mouth and I was blowing him at the same time.

 

I rode the big cock for quite awhile and then we switched positions. I took the big cock in my mouth and the other guy started to fuck me. Before he entered my ass, I heard him say, “You may not even feel this after that!” Well, guess what? I did. He had a certain twist in his cock and it hit all the right spots. We fucked around for awhile and I even had a chance to fuck both of the guys. I just love fucking a guy with a big cock. It was still fairly early in the evening so none of us wanted to cum yet so we went our own ways. As the night went on, we saw each other occasionally and would grab each others cocks as we walked past one another. It was almost like a male bonding thing.

I wanted to give my ass a break for awhile so I went to the sling room to see what was going on. I wanted to please my voyeuristic side. Well, before I knew it I was on my knees giving a guy a blow job. As more people gathered to watch and participate, I found myself blowing four guys while this other guy joined me on his knees and more guys joined in. Between us, we ended up blowing 7 guys. I was covered in cum by the time I was done. As I was leaving the sling room, the other guy that was on his knees with me said to me, “Now that was fucking amazing!!” I said, “Yes it was!” Off to the showers I went to get cleaned up.

It was starting to get a little late so I decided that I wanted to get fucked one more time before I would try and get some sleep. I went back to my room to have some water and a granola bar. I relaxed for 10 minutes and watched some porn. I went for a walk around and ran into Scott and Jim out by the outdoor pool. They were having a relaxing evening and just wanted to hang out together. They were really not interested in playing with others.

I decided I wanted to head into the steam room to watch some guys having sex. Well, I ended up being one of those guys. I, again, was on my knees giving head to a cute guy who was in his 30s. People were gathering to watch and play. You have to remember that while you are playing at a bathhouse and people watch, you are bound to have guys trying to stick their fingers up your ass. I can only handle this for short periods of time, so I invited this guy to my room….

 

To be continued… (I am not even half way done with the men that evening)

Energy

Well, this past weekend we had our first snowfall. It happened on Saturday night and here it is Monday and it is still on the ground! Everything smells so fresh outside. I come alive during winter and my energy level goes through the roof in comparison to the summer. It all has to do with growing up in Labrador.

I remember my bedroom quite well from when I was a young lad. Today as I looked out my apartment window, I was reminded of that time. Outside my window are icicles that formed over the past few days. When I was younger, I use to stare out my window and watch the huge icicles that were hanging from the roof. In Labrador this was just as winter was coming and leaving. I use to picture what my future would be like as I watched the little drop of water on the end get larger and larger until, in my mind, I would will it to drop two stories down. Before I knew it an hour had passed and during that time I was transformed into anything from a superhero to rock star with every aspect figured out.

So as of today, I feel my bod and wee mind changing and hopefully I will have more energy to do the stuff I like doing like working out and blogging…we shall see!! BTW all is well in my world…..

I am trying

I am trying to make an effort to get back into blogging. By the time I get home, I am usually exhausted. I am going to finish my account of my vacation and three other bathhouses that I hit as soon as possible. I also want to tell everyone about my visit to my old stomping grounds…the banner is a clue. I do have stuff to talk about, it is just getting the time to sit and write about it.

As for my life right now, it has been busy.  Work, although really fulfilling, is very tiring and I have to make a good impression as there is a chance for a new contract and a promotion. I am a perfectionist, so the extra pressure is taking it’s toll. I can handle it all. On top of this, I believe that a girl at work has a wee crush on me, so I have to have that conversation later this week…Argh!!!

I also bought a Wii System. Not that I have much time to play with it but it is good for decompressing. I like that you do not have to have the usual hand-to-eye coordination and I actually have to get up off my fat ass and move in order to play. Speaking of my fat ass, I also bought a bench and weight set to start building up my chest and arms and hopefully the gut will get smaller at the same time. Jim, I need some exercises!!!PLEASE!!

I  will try and write about the bathhouse in Cleveland this week and over a dozen men I had sex with and why I needed a babysitter. Until then, enjoy your week!!

Where’s the Meat…Part 3

I am so glad I decided to take this chance and go on this adventure. I finally got Jim out of the shower and on the move. We walked over to Dupont circle via a few detours along the way to figure out where the bars were. We did a bit of shopping and searched for Scott’s and Jim’s favorite restaurant Annies. Again Jim had to phone Scott to get directions. Supper was amazing!!! Again 3 calls from Scott during supper.

We got back to the hotel and got ready to go out. We heard that the Eagle was having a jock/leather party so we dawned our gear. (After Jim had some webcam sex with Scott) We get to The Eagle and it was quiet!! Very Quiet!! I so wanted to drop my pants tonight and walk around in a jock!! Damn!!

WOW!! there is a cute guy over in the corner…He looks so sweet and innocent. I cruise him for a short time and he gets up and then I saw something I have never seen before and it stuck with me the entire night and threw me off!!! When he turned around he had printed on his t-shirt “My Favorite Colors are Black and Blue” For some reason this sent my brain into spins and I will not go into all the thoughts that ran through my head, just rest assured that I was spinning. We stayed there for a short time longer then headed to another bar but it was empty so we decided to go directly to the Bathhouse.

OHHH…the guy at the door is HOT!! I hope this is an indication of what is to come!! I got a room and Jim just got a locker. Almost all the things normally found in a bathhouse were not there! The steam room was closed and there was a sauna. Besides a smoking room that was it besides the private rooms. The usual smells of a bathhouse was not there. You can usually smell sex at a bathhouse (well I can  lol) and sex is all around. There was not even any porn on the video screens! All I could watch was about the  bridge collapse. I walked and walked around the bathhouse and NOTHING!!! NOTHING at all. I never got groped, blown or fucked the entire night!! Unlike the muscle god I showed up with!! He got lucky twice…Prick!!! lol All he could say was I got my MOJO back!! Not exactly what I wanted to hear! I was happy for him, but I wanted sex too! I even did something that I never did before…I laid down on my stomach in my room with the door cracked open…NOTHING!!!

As I walked around, guess who I saw? Black and blue guy! Well that was sit for me…I wanted out. Jim had had his fill (Bastard lol) and was ready to  leave so we got dressed and left. All the same, It was a good day and even in a bathhouse life can get rough sometimes lol.

Do not fret!! I made up for it……

18 phone calls from Scott  all total for the 24 hour trip! Gotta love love

I am going to try!!!!

I have been a very bad blogger for the past 5 months. I realize this. I have been doing a lot of thinking about why that is. Quite honestly, it was no longer fun for me. I was writing posts daily, I was reading up to 50 other blogs daily and trying to comment on each and every one of them. It became a job instead of a way to relax. It use to take me almost 3 hours to do this daily and whenever there was a long post that someone took the time to write and share, I was just skimming over it to get the main points. This was not fair or nice.

I had to quit for awhile! I had to break free from all the pressure and it was easier to stop than it was to keep going. Being lazy, it was an easy decision. I stopped reading a lot of blogs and may have read one or two daily. Having made this decision, I kinda cut myself off and I do not know all that is going on in blogland.

So here is the deal I made with myself…I am going to post at least once a week and I am going to limit the number of blogs that I read. I am needy, so the people who comment will get priority. I can not read 50 blogs a day anymore!!! I know the people I had a real connection with and they will be listed in my blogroll when I change it this weekend. I will promise these people that I will visit them as often as possible. Other than these people, to get on my blogroll, you will have to prove to me that you are in this to become a friend. (sending me a nudie pic goes a long way!!! lol). Seriously, I enjoyed blogging and I want to again so I have to give myself boundaries in order to do this…I hope you understand!!!

The time last year, I met a man that will forever change my life and I want to take this time to thank him and his partner for being there for me and for sharing his life with me….

Scott and Jim…Thank you so much for making me believe again that I am worthy of having good friends that I can share anything with…without judgment. Hell, you were even a babysitter on my last visit!! lol We have been through a great deal this past year and because we are friends, it made things so much easier. Thank you for being my BB Friend and for being there. I love you both very much!!!

Here is something Just for you guys

For those that do not know BB Friend stands for Best Best Friend. Why? Well,we both have good friends and, in honor so that we did not diminish the value of their friendships, we made the term Best Best Friend to honor both them and also us at the same time. Just to embarass Scott, here is a link to where it all began…

http://capt-cavemans.blogspot.com/2006/09/me-feeling-comfortable.html

So stating this weekend I will finish my post that I began about a month ago about my trip and we will move on from there!!! Take care and have patience with me as I get back into the habit of blogging………….

Where’s the Meat? Part 2

Okay, I have hours in the car with Jim! What the fuck are we going to talk about for hours? I know Jimmy, but not that well. What if we get in the car and it is quiet after the first 5 minutes? Are we going to have that much in common to spend almost 2 days together? Okay, breathe!!! It is what it is and we are headed out in 20 minutes, so get your shit together, both in your head and your bag!!!

 

 

And they say you don't tug on Superman's cape
You don't spit into the wind
You don't pull the mask off an 'ole Lone Ranger
And you don't mess around with Jim

 

We decided that I will drive for the first part and Jim will drive once we get close to Washington. He has been there many times before. Washington was where him and Scott use to strip in the 80s, so he knows the way around better than I. Two hours later, we are still talking non stop about our pasts, our futures, our loves, our flings and our preferences. We listened to music non stop the whole way and are getting along famously!!!

Just to see you smile
I’d do anything
That you wanted me to
And all is said and done
I’d never count the cost
It’s worth all that’s lost
Just to see you smile

We drove right to the hotel without making a wrong turn!!! We were too early to check in so we ate lunch in the car (That we all made last night…actually Scott made Jimmy’s). We decided to go for a walking tour! Our hotel was very close to all the attractions so we just left. We walked over to the White House! We walked all the way around from the back to the front and got plenty of pics along the way. A person actually asked us if we wanted her to take our picture together in front of the White House. I thought to myself…hmmm do we look like an old married gay couple? Are we that obvious? I should also mention that by this time Scott and Jim were after talking to each other 6 times. Scott seemed to phone just as we got to a new attraction.

We then moved on to the Washington Monument, the War Memorial,  the Lincoln Monument and all the other war memorials.

Here is a brief video…by the way, it is edited to remove Jimmy from here except for a brief second so I can prove that Scott was with us because that is who Jim is talking to AGAIN on the phone….

 

My favorite spot so far is the  Korean Memorial. The Figures are both eerie and beautiful at the same time plus the faces in the marble are absolutely amazing!!! I never knew about this before so it took me by surprise!!!

After a 5, yes 5, hours of walking we ended up down by the Jefferson Monument. Things went wrong for awhile! We were walking along the walkway heading to the Monument and we decided that it was too far to go so we turned around and headed back. We talked about the cherry trees and the walkway and all the stuff that we did today…BANG!!! Jimmy walked head first into a cherry tree branch that was hanging low!!! First thought!! Is he ok? Next thought…Scott told me once that when Jimmy gets pissed, let him walk away until he decompresses. Next thought…Shut up and let him be!!! Curse Curse Curse and all was well!!! A few douses of water over his head from a nearby fountain and all was well!! He will have a mark!!!!

Ahhh…it is nice to be back in the hotel!!! Where is the shower? I am soaked with sweat!!! Did I say that it was really HOT!!! Where are the maps? We have to find out where the bars are and the bathhouse. Our plan is to find all these places on the way to supper at Annie’s. Now all I have to do is get Jimmy off the damn phone to get in the shower! At least he is naked!!!

Part 3 later in the week!!! One word preview>>>>MOJO!!! lol

Where’s the meat?

Jim said “Lets go!! “

It is a 20 minute walk to the 5 mile trail and that is where the walk actually began. Off goes his shirt and away he goes running. In 15 minutes I have to turn around and head back and he will do the same. This way we should get back at the same time. I made it to the concrete plant and headed back. Before I had the chance to make it all the way back, he goes flying past. He either got the time wrong or he sped up. I was exact in my timing (anyone who knows me knows I am kinda anal)

On the way home we picked up oil and a filter to do the oil change on my car. How butch is that!!! lol

“Jimmy, Did you see the lunch meat I bought yesterday?”

“No, maybe Scott used it” he said.

I would usually leave it at that, but jimmy never looked at me and he had a twitch in his forehead, so I knew something was up. We had a great lunch and headed out to Keystone to go to the lake. It was friggin hot. After baking in the sun for an hour under an umbrella tied to two folding chairs ( we looked like two old Bettie’s) we decided to walk around the lake. We went to the shower room and changed back into our walking clothes. I washed my feet off in the shower stall and man, it felt good. I wanted to jump in. I heard Jimmy’s shower start and asked if he was getting a shower. He said, “Yes”
I jumped into mine and it was so unbelievably refreshing!! He thought the same.

 

We went for our walk…During our walk, we discussed my work and how I have to support some individuals who are going through a difficult time in their lives. I said to him that I am rather good at telling when people are lying to me. Their facial expressions, their voice (tone and speed) their eyes and their body language. I told him that I did not know exactly what was up, but I knew that he was not telling me the whole truth this morning about the meat. He looked like a Deer caught in the headlights and immediately looked at the ground. He then confessed that Scott had thrown it out this morning, thinking it was old and the date was yesterday. He then realized it was the purchase date,but it was too late. I laughed and said “It was just a pack of meat…don’t sweat it” And I began to laugh. We had a great walk around the lake. This was walk number two.

We picked up subs and Scott joined us at Twin Lakes. We ate our supper and watched the ducks and geese as we walked around the lakes…Walk number three!!

We discussed going to Washington and what we wanted to do and about their stripping days in DC. Scott was talking about how much he was going to enjoy having the house all to himself for the first time in years. You could almost see all the gears turning in his head as he planned!!

To be Continue very soon…Albert and Jim (and Scott) go to Washington!!!

Creatures of Habits

The door opened and there they are!!! Scott, Jim and even kitkat came to see who was going to invade their space for a few days. Man, they are still as cute as ever!! It feels different this time. For some reason it is more relaxed. Could it be because we are now use to each other? Ok stop analyzing everything and enjoy yourself! It is so nice to see them again and it is amazing how we have somewhat the same views on life.

Ok, have to hurry up…we are heading to Harry Potter soon. These guys are just like two kids!!!

Talk about creatures of habit! They even have a routine at the beginning of a movie! Just as the trailers start, off they both go and use the bathroom.

Ahh how sweet, they are holding hands during the movie!!! Ah, Scott is getting frisky now and rubbing Jim’s leg. Damn, That was short lived! I was hoping to see a hand job in the theater! Gotta love public sex!

Time to eat! I am friggin starvin. Boston Market, here we come. Again, being creatures of habit, we all ordered our usual Turkey Supper. It is great seeing and talking to these guys again.

Day 2 at Scott’s and Jim’s

I am all by myself today. I should go for a walk! I wonder if I will get lost.

Whew!! It is friggin hot!! Damn, I have been gone for three hours now!!! Crap, my legs are getting tired and just look at that fucking hill I have to climb. I made it (three stops later lol) I have to stop at the grocery store to get some sandwich meat for the week and I am soaked with sweat!!

Kool..Jimmy is going to take the rest of the week off to spend with me! Hmmm. I wonder how well we will get along. We have never really spent any time together without Scott being there. I am sure it will be great. I wonder if he would like to go to Washington for a day or so?

Time to go veg in the sun! They have such a nice back yard.

This is hot!!! I am going to burn if I am not careful!

Jimmy is home! Damn, he has a hot bod! (he stripped down to tighty whities as soon as he got home!!)

Hmmm, I am not sure about driving all the way to Florida and back…It is a long way to go for two day? We will decide tomorrow. Washington or Florida? Scott is home!

Again creatures of habit…got to play Soul Caliber! Jimmy is cooking tonight!!! This is actually a first for me. I have never had anything that Jim has cooked. mmmmm this salmon is great! They both are good cooks.

Scott is thinking about taking Friday off…

To bed early because Scott has to get up early in the mornin!

Day 3 and The result of the Washington/Florida decision later in the week.

My Drive to Scott’s and Jim’s

I am going to start to post about my vacation and some of the experiences I had. Believe me, some are pretty interesting! And that is not to say that they are all sexual, because that is not the case (even though I did have loads of that, and I will kiss and tell lol)

I am going to try and write this from my brains perspective so that you will have an idea what I was thinking at the time ( and you will also get an understanding of how warped I can be at times) Here goes…

I am on the road from New Jersey to Pittsburgh.

Holy fuck!!! Man is it raining!! I can hardly see. Look how fucking dark it is getting!! For 10am it is pretty damn dark!! WOW!!that was a big flash! 1 Mississippi 2 Mississippi…ok less than two miles away!

Damn!! That was a big flash!! Ok it is on top of me now. Fuck!!! Fuck!! Fuck!!!! Man, I hope they are alright!! I can’t believe that just happened! How am I going to get around this safely? What the fuck am I going to do? I hope they are ok? The light pole landed half way through the van so they may be ok! Is that the side door? Thank God!!! people are getting out!! One, two, three..ok everyone is out!!Jesus, the pole is taking up 4 friggin lanes!

Ok, I have to get around this. Enough people have stopped to help and there is a way past that people are going. Jesus, I can not believe that just happened!! That was the biggest flash of sparks I have ever saw! I can not believe that I saw lightening take a pole right out of the ground and throw it!!

Whew!!!!!

It is amazing how the weather has changed so friggin fast!!! What the hell!! this is so cool!!! I am driving through a mountain!!! I feel like I am in some sort of music video!! This is sooooooooooo Cool!!! I have to get a video of this!!! Damn I am out! Look another one!!! I got the camera ready!!! This is going to look so Cool on my blog!! Fuck, I am going almost 80 miles an hour!!!

I love google maps!! I am almost to Scott’s and Jim’s and never got lost once all the way from Nova Scotia! Shit…That was the street where I should have turned!! Ok, go to the shopping centre and turn around! You know where you are now. I can’t wait to see them again!! I can’t be intrusive, I have to remember that!! This is so cool! I am here again! I am so glad I did this!! I hope they are home! There is their house! I made it!!!

Back Home

Well my trip is over! I had a great vacation. I will write about it in the days to come and there were some juicy stories, but the highlight was seeing all the people that I have not seen for awhile and spending time with people that I care about and care about me. I traveled 5408 Kms or 3360 miles. Whew!!! That was a lot of driving. I highly recommend that you just take off without any real plan and have a holiday!!!